A Joy Of Being A Woman..

A Joy Of Being A Woman..

The woman does not have to be just beautiful,

Must be caring, sympathetic, Feminine, charming and sincere.

You must have her beauty in your heart,

Because the beauty of the body, Weather is stolen, though she creates

They never lose their beauty,

The physical is not enduring,

The heart is maintained, At the heart true beauty is enclosed.

That beauty is never lost,

Inside, in our hearts,

It really is where the real truth.

The truth that we must maintain,

And we forget that beauty

Only lies to us with an image

Deceives us because obscures,

It can never come to reveal,

The beauty that encloses, True, he never abandons us.

And though time goes by,

Never change their beauty,

Because the heart never changes,

And that is its great height …

Thank you ALLAH for making me a woman

What a joy of being a woman!

Blessed are all women on earth!

Said By A Man…

Said By A Man…

The Best Lines ever said by a Man…

“When I was born, A Woman was there to hold me… My Mother

As I grew up as a child, A woman was there to care play with me… My Sister

I went to school, A Woman was there to Help me Learn… My Teacher

I needed Compatibility, Company Love, A Woman was there for me… My Wife

I became tough, A Woman was there to melt me… My Daughter”

If you are a Man, Value Every Woman… If you are a Woman, Feel Proud to be one.

Always Remember:

Your little girl will hold your hand for only a little while… but will hold your heart for a life time.

 

Life

Life

A wise man once sat in the audience and cracked a joke – all of them laughed like crazy. After a moment he cracked the same joke again a little less people laughed this time… He cracked the same one again no one laughed!!! Then he smiled and said ”when you can’t laugh on the same joke again again then why do you keep crying over the same thing over over again”

6 PRINCIPLES FOR LIFE

1. No point using limited life to chase unlimited money.

2. No point earning so much money you cannot live to spend it.

3. Money is not yours until you spend it.

4. When you are young, you use your health to chase your wealth; when you are old, you use your wealth to buy back your health. Difference is that, it is too late.

5. How happy a man is, is not how much he has but how little he needs.

6. No point working so hard to provide for the people you have no time to spend with.

Remember this: We come to this world with nothing, we leave this world with nothing!

 

Its Been Along Time…

Its Been Along Time…

As sala’amu alaikum / Hi

Dear Readers

I sincerely hope that you are all doing well. As for me, I have been so busy, and laptop crashed, internet went awol, hence I have not posted for along time.

I now hope that I would be able to carry on :)

May you all have a great day and blessed week.

Kind Regards

Muslimah

“May Allah guide me to do that which is pleasing to Him Aameen”

Walaikum as salaam

“O Allah, make my love for You the most beloved thing to me, and Your displeasure with me the most fearful thing to me, and instill in me a passion for meeting You; when you have given the people of the world the pleasures of their world, make the coolness of my eyes (pleasure) in worshipping You. Aameen Thuma Aameen”

Let Go Of Sorrow.

Let Go Of Sorrow.

Letting Go of Sorrow:

If I allow bitterness and resentment to fester inside, it will make my relationships guarded and unsatisfying. The more I close down to others, the more I become a stranger to myself. By letting go of sorrow and negativity, I can keep my nature open and loving. Remaining open to life, with its constant adventures and opportunities to grow, is the only way to reach my full potential. Free from Waste: In order to be the best, it is important to be free from waste. Even a drop of something negative spoils the taste and utility of something positive. In the same way, if I want to make my thoughts and life beautiful, I need to keep myself free from waste and negative. To be the best, I need to free myself of waste. Today I will check if I am free from waste. Whenever I catch myself spending time and energy with anything waste, I will stop, check and change. This will keep me positive throughout the day.

A Simple Definition Of Contentment : If one was asked to define contentment, how would one do the same? A very simple and easy to understand, definition of contentment, is:

At the present moment it would be:

* wherever you are is wherever you are meant to be

* whatever you are doing is whatever you are meant to be doing

* whatever everyone else is doing is what they are meant to be doing.

To experience constant contentment, we need to become aware of all the things that make us discontent (dissatisfied) and free ourselves from those things (ideas, opinions, objects, people). We don’t have to reject them or distance ourselves from them, but a detachment from them, a detachment at the level of the consciousness that will bring back our inner freedom. Detachment is then accompanied by the experience of a deep, inner awareness of satisfaction and stillness, because you stop being dependent on anything or anyone outside ourselves.

It is highly unlikely that we will arrive at this deep state of fulfillment very soon – though we may touch it and experience it temporarily. It is only by understanding and accepting completely that everything is the way it is meant to be at every moment, both outside our minds and inside our minds that we move closer to being content.

Alphabet of Happiness…

Alphabet of Happiness…

A–Accept Accept others for who they are and for the choices they’ve made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.

B–Break Away Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.

C–Create  a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.

D–Decide  that you’ll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

E–Explore  and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you’ll learn more about yourself.

F–Forgive  and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G–Grow up leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H–Hope  for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I–Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.

J–Journey  to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you’ll grow.

K–Know that no matter how bad things seem, they’ll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L–Love Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there’s room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there’s room for endless happiness.

M–Manage  your time and your expenses wisely, and you’ll suffer less stress and worry. Then you’ll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N–Never  ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.

O–Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there’s still much to be thankful for.

P–Play, never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q–Question Ask many questions, because you’re here to learn.

R–Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S–Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

T–Try anyway, even when your dreams seem impossible to reach. You’ll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U–Use  your gifts to your best ability. Talent that’s wasted has no value. Talent that’s used will bring unexpected rewards.

V–Value  family members and the friends who’ve supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.

W–Work  hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X–X-Ray Look deep inside like X-Ray in the hearts of those around you and you’ll see the goodness and beauty within.

Y–Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you’ll find success at the end of the road.

Z–Zoom  to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

 

A Story With A Moral- An Ant

A Story With A Moral- An Ant

One Sunday morning a wealthy man sat in his balcony enjoying sunshine and his coffee when a little ant caught his eye which was going from one side to the other side of the balcony carrying a big leaf several times more than its size. The man watched it for more than an hour. He saw that the ant faced many impediments during its journey, , took a diversion and then continued towards destination.

At one point the tiny creature came across a crack in the floor. It paused for a little while, analysed and then laid the huge leaf over the crack, walked over the leaf, picked the leaf on the other side then continued its journey.

The man was captivated by the cleverness of the ant, one of Allah’s tiniest creatures. The incident left the man in awe and forced him to contemplate over the miracle of Creation. It showed the greatness of the Creator. In front of his eyes there was this tiny creature of Allah, lacking in size yet equipped with a brain to analyze, contemplate, reason, explore, discover and overcome. Along with all these capabilities, the man also noticed that this tiny creature shared some human shortcomings.

The man saw about an hour later the creature had reached its destination – a tiny hole in the floor which was an entrance to its underground dwelling. And it was at this point that the ant’s shortcoming that it shared with the man was revealed. How could the ant carry into the tiny hole the large leaf that it had managed to carefully bring to the destination? It simply couldn’t!

So the tiny creature, after all the painstaking and hard work and exercising great skills, overcoming all the difficulties along the way, just left behind the large leaf and went home empty-handed.

The ant had not thought about the end before it began its challenging journey and in the end the large leaf was nothing more than a burden to it. The creature had no option, but to leave it behind to reach its destination. The man learned a great lesson that day.

Moral: Isn’t that the truth about our lives?

We worry about our family, we worry about our job, we worry about how to earn more money, we worry about where we should live – 5 bedroom or 6 bedroom house, what kind of vehicle to buy – a Mercedes or BMW or a Porsche, what kind of dresses to wear, all sorts of things, only to abandon all these things when we reach our destination – The Grave. We don’t realize in our life’s journey that these are just burdens that we are carrying with utmost care and fear of losing them, only to find that at the end they are useless and we can’t take them with us.