My 20 Rules….

My 20 Rules….

  1. When you want something, the whole universe conspires to make it happen, And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
  2. Detach from all things and you will be free.
  3. We are all here for a purpose: No matter what he does, every person on earth plays a central role in the history of the world. And normally he doesn’t know it. Everybody has a creative potential and from the moment you can express this creative potential, you can start changing the world.
  4. The only thing standing between you and your dream are your fears: “Don’t give in to your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.” “There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.”
  5. Mistakes are part of life: Everything tells me that I am about to make a wrong decision, but making mistakes is just part of life. What does the world want of me? Does it want me to take no risks, to go back to where I came from because I didn’t have the courage to say “yes” to life?
  6. Every experience, either good or bad, comes with a lesson: There are moments when troubles enter our lives and we can do nothing to avoid them. But they are there for a reason. Only when we have overcome them will we understand why they were there.
  7. When you change, the whole world changes with you. When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.
  8. Mind your own business. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.
  9. When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive. No one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone. That is the true experience of freedom: having the most important thing in the world without owning it.
  10. Wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure. Remember that wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure.
  11. Judge not. We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It’s one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it’s another to think that yours is the only path.
  12. Children have valuable lessons to teach you. A child can teach an adult three things: to be happy for no reason, to always be busy with something, and to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires.
  13. Nobody’s responsible for how you feel or don’t feel. In love, no one can harm anyone else; we are each responsible for our own feelings and cannot blame someone else for what we feel.
  14. Your beliefs shape you and make you who you are. You are what you believe yourself to be.
  15. Let go of the need to explain yourself. Don’t explain. Your friends do not need it, and your enemies will not believe you.
  16. Don’t mistake elegance with superficiality. Elegance is usually confused with superficiality, fashion, lack of depth. This is a serious mistake: human beings need to have elegance in their actions and in their posture because this word is synonymous with good taste, amiability, equilibrium and harmony.
  17. When you do work from your soul, the critics won’t hurt you. I write from my soul. This is the reason that critics don’t hurt me, because it is me. If it was not me, if I was pretending to be someone else, then this could unbalance my world, but I know who I am.
  18. Each day brings a miracle of its own. You can become blind by seeing each day as a similar one. Each day is a different one; each day brings a miracle of its own. It’s just a matter of paying attention to this miracle.
  19. Embrace your authenticity you are someone who is different, but who wants to be the same as everyone else. And that in my view is a serious illness. Allah (God) chose you to be different. Why are you disappointing Allah (God) with this kind of attitude? You must be the person you have never had the courage to be. Gradually, you will discover that you are that person, but until you can see this clearly, you must pretend and invent.
  20. The most important RULE:  RESPECT ONE RULE :NEVER LIE TO YOURSELF!!!  

 

That Letter “E”!!!

That Letter “E”!!!

In this world of E-mails, E-ticket, E-paper, E-recharge, E-transfer and the latest E-Governance…:

*Never Forget “E-shwar (God)” who makes E-verything E-asy for E-veryone E-veryday. “E” is the most Eminent letter in all most every situation.

*Men or Women don’t exist without “E”. *

House or Home can’t be made without “E”.

*Bread or Butter can’t be found without “E”.                             

“E” is the beginning of “Ethics” and end of “Life”

*It is beginning of “Existence” and the end of “Trouble.”

*It is beginning of “Evolve” and the beginning of “End”

*It’s not in ‘War’ but twice in ‘Peace’. *It’s once in ‘Hell’ but twice in ‘Heaven’.

*”E” represented ‘Emotions’

*Hence, all emotional relations like Father, Mother, Brother, Sister, Wife Friends have ‘E’ in them.

*”E” also represents ‘Effort’ ‘Energy’

*Without “E”, we would have no Love, Life, Wife, Friends or Hope.

*And ‘See’, ‘Hear’, ‘Smell’, or ‘Taste’ as ‘Eye’ ‘Ear’, ‘Nose’, Heart ‘Tongue’ are incomplete without “e”.                                 

Henceforth GO with “E” but without E-GO.

A Story With A Moral- Hardships

A Story With A Moral- Hardships 

There was a couple who used to go to shop in the beautiful stores. They both liked antiques and pottery and especially teacups.

One day in this beautiful shop they saw a beautiful teacup.

They said, “May we see that? We’ve never seen one quite so beautiful.”

As the lady handed it to them, suddenly the teacup spoke. “You don’t understand,” it said. “I haven’t always been a teacup. There was a time when I was red and I was clay.” My master took me and rolled me and patted me over and over and I yelled out, “let me alone”, but he only smiled, “Not yet.”

“Then I was placed on a spinning wheel,” the teacup said, “and suddenly I was spun around and around and around. Stop it! I’m getting dizzy!” I screamed. But the master only nodded and said, ‘Not yet.”

Then he put me in the oven. I never felt such heat. I wondered why he wanted to burn me, and I yelled and knocked at the door. I could see him through the opening and I could read his lips as He shook his head, “Not yet.”

Finally the door opened, he put me on the shelf, and I began to cool. “There, that’s better,” I said. And he brushed and painted me all over. The fumes were horrible. I thought I would gag. “Stop it, stop it!” I cried. He only nodded, “Not yet.”

Then suddenly he put me back into the oven, not like the first one. This was twice as hot and I knew I would suffocate. I begged. I pleaded. I screamed. I cried. All the time I could see him through the opening nodding his head saying, “Not yet.”

Then I knew there wasn’t any hope. I would never make it. I was ready to give up. But the door opened and he took me out and placed me on the shelf. One hour later he handed me a mirror and said, “Look at yourself.”

And I did. I said, “That’s not me; that couldn’t be me. It’s beautiful. I’m beautiful.”

“I want you to remember,” then he said “I know it hurts to be rolled and patted, but if I had left you alone, you’d have dried up. I know it made you dizzy to spin around on the wheel, but if I had stopped, you would have crumbled. I knew it hurt and was hot and disagreeable in the oven, but if I hadn’t put you there, you would have cracked. I know the fumes were bad when I brushed and painted you all over, but if I hadn’t done that, you never would have hardened; you would not have had any color in your life. And if I hadn’t put you back in that second oven, you wouldn’t survive for very long because the hardness would not have held. Now you are a finished product. You are what I had in mind when I first began with you.”

Moral:  The MORAL that I have taken from this story into my own life is that: Allah knows what He’s doing (for all of us). He will mould us and make us, So that we may be made into a flawless piece of work — to fulfill His good, pleasing, and perfect will. So, face every hardship with a Smile! The Creator knows it all, and knows the Best!

The Perfect Gifts That Cost Nothing

The Perfect Gifts That Cost Nothing

  • LISTENING.. But you must REALLY listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.
  • AFFECTION.. Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.
  • LAUGHTER.. Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, “I love to laugh with you.”
  • A WRITTEN NOTE… It can be a simple “Thanks for the help” note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.
  • A COMPLIMENT… A simple and sincere, “You look great in red” “You did a super job” or “That was a wonderful meal” can make someone’s day.
  • A FAVOR… Whenever there is the chance, share a small random act of kindness.
  • SOLITUDE.. There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times, and give the gift of solitude to others.
  • A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION… The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone. It’s as easy as saying you are great or thank you

 

Islam is…

Islam is…

Islam Is A Religion Of Ease,

Islam Is Nor Human Please Or Tease,

Islam Is A Way Of Life,

Islam Is Not Violence With Knife,

Islam Is A Religion Of Love,

Islam Is Based On Trust In Allah Like A Dove,

Islam Is Helping The Poor Give Money,

Islam Is Tasting Sweetness Of Iman Like Honey,

Islam Is Based On Brotherhood,

Islam Is An Ummah Unite We Should,

Islam Is A Smile,

Islam Is Help A Friend Phone And Dial,

Islam Is Rememberance Of Allah Who Is Ar-Rahman,Ar-Rahim,

Islam Is Obtaining Your Islam Potential We Work We Dream,

Islam Is Having Taqwa And Showing Patience By Striving,

Islam Is Nor Rage Like Fire Or Anger By Diving,

Islam Is Bulit Upon 5 Pillars,

Islam Is Praising Allah During Hardships The Killers,

Islam Is Reading/Implementing Hadith And Quran,

Islam Is Staying Away From Haram,

Islam Is Buliding Good Deeds Till Death,

Islam Is Repenting Till Last Breath,

Islam Is The Light,

Islam Is Key To Success Subhanallah So Bright,

Islam Is Praising Allah When Low Or High,

Islam Is Loving Animals,Insects Especially Fly,

Islam Is Truth Allah’s Pleasure We Creed,

Islam Is Nor Arrogance Or Greed,

Islam Is Full Time Submission Not Part Time,

Islam Is Sweet As Sugar Not Sour As Lime,

Islam Is For Young,Old And Teen,

Islam Is For All Where Have You Been???

Forgive And Forget And Move On

Forgive And Forget And Move On 

This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind.

We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person

who insults us or harms us. 

We nurture grievances.

This in turn results in loss of sleep,

development of stomach ulcers,

and high blood pressure. 

This insult or injury was done once,

but nourishing of grievance goes on forever

by constantly remembering it. 

Get over this bad habit.

Believe in the justice of ALLAH. 

Let Him judge the act of the one who insulted you.

Life is too short to waste in such trifles.

Forgive, Forget, and march on.

Love flourishes in giving and forgiving.

The Tongue Can Be Your Worst Enemy!

The Tongue Can Be Your Worst Enemy!

Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have power to create conditions in your life. What you speak about, you can bring about.

  • ·         If you keep saying you can’t stand your job, you might lose your job.
  • ·         If you keep saying you can’t stand your body, your body can become sick.
  • ·         If you keep saying you can’t stand your car, your car could be stolen or just stop operating.
  • ·         If you keep saying you’re broke, guess what? You’ll always be broke.
  • ·         If you keep saying you can’t trust a man or trust a woman, you will always find someone in your life to hurt and betray you.
  • ·         If you keep saying you can’t find a job, you will remain unemployed.
  • ·         If you keep saying you can’t find someone to love you or believe in you, your very thought will attract more experiences to confirm your beliefs.
  • ·         If you keep talking about a divorce or break up in a relationship, then you might end up with it.

 Turn your thoughts and conversations around to be more positive and power packed with faith, hope, love and action.

 Don’t be afraid to believe that you can have what you want and deserve.

  • ·         Watch your Thoughts, they become words.
  • ·         Watch your Words, they become actions.
  • ·         Watch your Actions, they become habits.
  • ·         Watch your Habits, they become character.
  • ·         Watch your Character, for it becomes your Destiny.

The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settle for.

 Thought I would share this with you:

  • ·         In the search for Me, I discovered Truth.
  • ·         In the search for Truth, I discovered Love.
  • ·         In the search for Love, I discovered ALLAH.
  • ·         And in ALLAH,  I have found Everything.

 

Watch how your circumstances and situations begin to change when you change the way you speak.