THE EXCELLENCE OF DUROOD SHAREEF

THE EXCELLENCE OF DUROOD SHAREEF

1) For every Durood Shariif that you recite, ten sins are forgiven, ten good deeds are entered into your sheet of actions and ten positions are upgraded.

2) Allah showers ten blessings on the man who recites a Durood.

3) The first man who will meet the Prophet (SAW) on the Day of Judgment will be that person who had recited the Durood maximum number of times in his life time.

4) Those who recite Durood in maximum number will be nearest and dearest to the Prophet (SAW) in the next world.

5) If any one is involved in a difficulty then he must recite countless number of Durood Sheriffs.

6) Reciting Durood eradicates poverty and hunger.

7) If the Sawaab of the Durood is dedicated to another person, then that person will receive the Sawaab, while the Sawaab of the reciter will not be lessened.

8) Reciting excessive Durood brings purity.

9) Reciting maximum number of Durood is full compensation of all sins.

10) Any one who recites excessive Durood in this world will be safe and sound in the next world.

11) When a prayer is made to Allah it is never accepted unless praise of Allah and Durood on the Holy Prophet (SAW) is first of all recited.

12) Those who recite Durood quite often will see Divine Light on the dark Day of Judgment.

13) Three persons will be under the cool shade and the favours of Allah on the Doom’s Day. One who kept the Prophet’s (SAW) Sunnah alive, one who removed difficulty of a fellow being and one who recited maximum number of Durood in his life time.

14) When you forget anything and your memory fails to recollect it, and then recite Durood, you will remember the forgotten thing.

15) Reciting Durood in this world is rewarding in the next.

16) The reciter of 10 Durood in the morning and 10 in the evening will receive the help of the Prophet (SAW) on the Day of Judgment.

17) One who recites Durood near the shrine of the Prophet (SAW) is heard by him there and then alone.

18) Any one who recites Durood is just as one who purchased a slave and freed him.

19) If a Durood is written in a book by someone Angels of Allah shower blessings on him till the Durood remains in that book.

20) The Prophet (SAW) said that he himself recites blessings on one who recites Durood on him.

21) Any one who wants to meet his Allah with a happy face must recite countless number of Durood.

22) Reward equivalent to a big mountain (Uhud) is given to one who recites one Durood.

23) All people will be presented to the Prophet (SAW) with their habits, natures and distinct manner, so it is obligatory for a man to recite maximum number of Durood.

24) Allah is Great and Almighty to forgive all sins of the reciter during the day and night when he recites Durood.

 

25) If any one meets in a tragedy, he should recite Durood in countless numbers.

26) Reciting Durood is like giving something in charity.

27) Reciting maximum number of Durood kills all hardships.

28) Recite Durood in countless number on Friday, as it is presented to me (the Prophet SAW).

29) Bad deeds of 200 years (equivalent) are obliterated if a man recites 100 Durood on Friday.

30) Anyone who recites Durood will overcome all their troubles.

31) If the name of the Prophet (SAW) is mentioned and one who hears it but does not recite Durood understand that he has forgotten the path to Paradise.

32) “I pray for all those who recite Durood on me”, said the Prophet (SAW).

33) If any one recites Durood from any place, any part of the world from any distance, it actually reaches the Prophet (SAW) immediately. Allah has appointed several Angels who are given exclusive duty to collect all Durood and present the same before the Prophet (SAW) immediately.

34) Angels of Allah shower 70 blessings on a man who recites Durood once.

35) Whenever you hear the call of prayers (Azaan) you should recite Durood.

36) Wherever you are, from any quarter of the world, you must recite Durood as it reaches the Prophet (SAW).

37) The Prophet (SAW) said to his wife that any one who hears the name of the Prophet (SAW) and does not recite Durood on him will not see the beautiful face of Prophet (SAW) on the Day of the Judgment.

38) Ali (RA) reports that Rasulullah (SAW) said, “The real miser is he in whose presence I am mentioned and then he fails to recite Durood on me”.

39) If a person recites 1 000 Durood daily, he will never die unless he himself sees his place in Heaven with his own eyes.

40) The Durood that is recited by the person is written with a Golden Pen on a Silver tablet by the Angels. The Angels then present this Durood to Rasulullah (SAW) and proclaim, “O Habeeb of Allah! The son of such and such a person has presented this gift in your majestic court”.

The shortest and simplest form of Durood is
صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم
Transliteration: Sall-Allahu alayhi wasallam
Translation: “Peace and Blessings be upon him (Prophet Muhammad)”

RELATIONSHIP Between Spouses

RELATIONSHIP Between Spouses

TRUST ME.

Trust is a very important factor for all relationships.  Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

NO POINTING FINGERS.
A man asked his father-in-law, ‘Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?’
The father-in-law answered in a smile, ‘Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcoming and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.’
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested ‘I am looking for a spouse. Please help me. “Your requirements, please.” “Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, and good in singing and dancing. She must be willing to accompany me the whole day, at home during my leisure hour, if I don’t go out must be able to Telling me interesting stories, when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.”  The officer listened carefully and replied, “I understand you need television.”
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

NO OVERPOWERING.
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character.”
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

RIGHT SPEECH.
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.” Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It’s like a broken egg – cannot be reversed.

PERSONAL PERCEPTION.
Different people have different perception. One man’s meat could be another man’s poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, “Very stupid. Why neither of them rides on the donkey?” Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, “The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?” Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, “How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.” The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, “Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.” Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.. BE PATIENT.
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, and hammered the little boy’s hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy’s hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, “Daddy, I’m sorry about your truck.” Then he asked, “But when are my fingers going to grow back?” The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired… Broken bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.