Stay Away From Anger..

 Stay away from Anger.. 

  It hurts ..Only You! 

 If you are right then there is no need to get angry, 

 And if you are wrong then you don’t have any right to get angry. 

 Patience with family is love,

 Patience with others is respect. 

 Patience with self is confidence and Patience with Allah is faith. 

 Never Think Hard about the PAST, It brings Tears…

 Don’t think more about the FUTURE, It brings Fear… 

 Live this Moment with a Smile,It brings Cheer.

 Every test in our life makes us bitter or better,

 Every problem comes to make us or break us, 

The choice is ours whether we become victims or victorious.

 Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful.

 Do you know why Allah created gaps between fingers? 

 So that someone who is special to you comes and fills those gaps by holding your hand forever.

 Happiness keeps You Sweet..But being sweet brings happiness..

Minimum 35 Ways to Respect your Parents. 

Minimum 35 Ways to Respect your Parents. 
May Allah give us sense of ability to follow these guidelines. Aameen. 1. Put away your phone in their presence.

2. Pay attention to what they are saying.

3. Accept their opinions.

4. Engage in their conversations.

5. Look at them with respect.

6. Always praise them.

7. Share good news with them.

8. Avoid sharing bad news with them.

9. Speak well of their friends and loved ones to them.

10. Keep in remembrance the good things they did.

11. If they repeat a story, listen like it’s the first time they tell it.

12. Don’t bring up painful memories from the past.

13. Avoid side conversations in their presence.

14. Sit respectfully around them.

15. Don’t belittle/criticize their opinions and thoughts.

16. Avoid cutting them off when they speak.

17. Respect their age.

18. Avoid disciplining their grandchildren around them.

19. Accept their advice and direction.

20. Give them the power of leadership when they are present.

21. Avoid raising your voice at them.

22. Avoid walking in front or ahead of them.

23. Avoid eating before them.

24. Avoid glaring at them.

25. Fill them with your appreciation even when they don’t think they deserve it.

26. Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them.

27. Don’t speak ill of them to the point where others speak ill of them too.

28. Keep them in your prayers always possible.

29. Avoid seeming bored or tired of them in their presence.

30. Avoid laughing at their faults/mistakes.

31. Do a task before they ask you to.

32. Continuously visit them.

33. Choose your words carefully when speaking with them.

34. Call them by names they like.

35. Make them your priority above anything.

Parents are treasure on this land and sooner than you think, that treasure will be buried. Appreciate your parents while you still can.

Today lets make loads of duas for our beloved parents, alive or deceased.

“Ya Allah ease the burdens of our beloved parents, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ 

Ya Allah remove their burdens due to debt, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ 

Ya Allah ease their pain, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ 

Ya Allah give shifa for the diseases they’re suffering from, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ 

Ya Allah never make them dependent on anyone besides YOU until their last breath, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ 

Ya Allah bless our parents with Happiness. آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ”

We should respect and honour our parents. Never hurt them, part of the reason of all the troubles they’re undergoing is due to us.

Their debts are due to fulfilling our needs,

Their poor health is due to their efforts in giving us the best,

Their every breath is a sacrifice made for their children…

Make a promise that u would at least do one thing today which will make YOUR parents happy.

Our Tongue Can Be Our Worst Enemy

                                            Our Tongue Can Be Our Worst Enemy

Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have power to create conditions in your life. What you speak about, you can bring about.

a) If you keep saying you can’t stand your job, you might lose your job.
b) If you keep saying you can’t stand your body, your body can become sick.
c) If you keep saying that you are sick or ill, guess what you will stay sick or ill.
d) If you keep saying you can’t stand your car, your car could be stolen or just stop operating.
e) If you keep saying you’re broke, guess what? You’ll always be broke.
f) If you keep saying you can’t trust a man or trust a woman, you will always find someone in your life to hurt and betray you. If you keep saying you can’t find a job, you will remain unemployed.
g) If you keep saying you can’t find someone to love you or believe in you. Your very thought will attract more experiences to confirm your beliefs

“If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”

Forget 5 Things…..

Forget 5 Things…..

It is said that everyone in this world is selfish. But do you know that there are many things that you can forget about yourself? You don’t even have to think about those things. If you have never thought about it, here is list that you can follow.

Forget if You Know Someone Hates You: In life, there is no point to remember the people who don’t love you. Your life is very important. You must live to be loved by others, not to be hated by people around you. Because you love yourself and what to improve your life. But it doesn’t mean that you have to hate them. Everyone has their own choice. May be, they have found something in you to hate for. If you don’t understand the reason why people don’t love you, it is better not to think about that. It is a lot better to start living your life in your own way.

Forget if You Know That Someone is Angry on You: Anger is an inseparable part of our personality. Your life will always keep bringing it in front of you. Actually, it is not actually possible to totally control your anger. But if you try hard to control your feelings and emotions it may be possible. Think about how many times you have been angry in your life till now. It doesn’t matter how many times you got angry. What matters is that your anger got always reduced after a certain time. So if you know that a person is angry on you for any reason and you are being tense for that, there is no use. Improve your mentality and forget the fact that he ( she ) will always be angry on you. Think more about the fact that it will reduce after a certain time. You just need to wait for that time. If the person is very close to you, it is not possible to keep the anger for a long time. There is something to remember that generally, those who are close to you get angry on you. Those who are not close to you and have no connection with you will never even think about being angry on you. If you know that someone having no connection with you is angry on you, it is not actually anger, this is something more than that. Yes, life is really mysterious sometimes.

Forget if You Miss Someone so Much: Do you miss someone you love? If yes, I would suggest you not to miss anyone just because he or she is not with you. Missing someone doesn’t give any satisfaction of mind. Rather, it only increases your dissatisfaction of your mind. Life is to think about positive things, not to think about the negatives of life. If you are strongly connected with a person, there is no logic in missing that person. If you miss your life partner so much, think that somewhere in this world, your partner is still with you. Improve your understanding with your life partner. Then it will be a lot easier. However, I have to say that controlling this kind of feelings is a little difficult for people who are in love.

Forget the Fact if You are Alone in This World: Being alone in this world is not something to regret for. If you are sad for it, let me tell you that there are so many other people who are alone in this world. They also live a lonely life. Being sad for this reason is not actually going to give you anything. But if you prepare yourself to build good and strong connection with the people around you, it is much better than only being sad. Life has so many things to be proud of. Even if you are alone in life, there is always someone with you. It is ALLAH. So it is better to forget it and think about building relationship with people around you. Try to improve your connection with people around you. Your life has to be easier.

Forget the Things You Can Not Do: If you are totally unable to do something in your life, it is better to forget everything about it. If you only remember it and get sad without taking serious action to be able to do that, it is better to forget it. Sometimes, we become very much sad when we are unable to do something while people around us can do it. In such times, it is better to work on yourself to improve your ability rather thinking about what you cannot do in life. If you are sure that you will never be able to do that, it is better to totally forget it. Forget your inability to do that and also forget the time you failed. In the beginning, it may be a little difficult for you. But actually it is not. Keeping a thought about your inability to perform a job will only increase your mental dissatisfaction and reduce your self-confidence. Life must be lived proudly with full confidence, not by bending your head all the time. Always think about improving yourself and the quality of your life.
 

Since I Posted…..

Since I Posted…..

As sala’amu alaikum / Hi

Dear Readers

Its been sometime since I posted any new post, been having some health problems , Alhamdulillah its getting sorted out.

I will hopefully be posting new post soon.

May you all have a great day and blessed week.

Kind Regards

Muslimah

“May Allah guide me to do that which is pleasing to Him Aameen”

Walaikum as salaam

“O Allah, make my love for You the most beloved thing to me, and Your displeasure with me the most fearful thing to me, and instill in me a passion for meeting You; when you have given the people of the world the pleasures of their world, make the coolness of my eyes (pleasure) in worshipping You. Aameen Thuma Aameen”

 

“Give Up…”15 Thing…

“Give Up…”15 Thing…

We hold on to so many things that cause us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering and instead of letting them all go and allowing ourselves to be stress-free and happy, we cling on to them. Well, not anymore. Starting today, we will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change. Ready? Here we go!

  • Give up your need to always be right: There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong wanting to always be right even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question from Dr. Wayne Dyer: ‘Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?’ What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big?
  • Give up your need for control: Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, co-workers, or just strangers you meet on the street just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel.
  • Give up on blame: Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don’t have, for what you feel or don’t feel. Stop giving your powers away and start taking responsibility for your life.
  • Give up your self-defeating self-talk: Oh my. How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating mind set? Don’t believe everything that your mind is telling you especially if it’s negative and self-defeating. You are better than that.Give up your limiting beliefs about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible: From now on, you are no longer going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep you stuck in the wrong place. Spread your wings and fly!
  • Give up complaining: Give up your constant need to complain about those many, many, many things people, situations and events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad or miserable unless you allow it to. It’s not the situation that triggers those feelings in you, but how you choose to look at it. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.
  • Give up the luxury of criticism: Give up your need to criticize things, events or people that are different than you. We are all different, yet we are all the same. We all want to be happy, we all want to love and be loved and we all want to be understood. We all want something, and something is wished by us all.
  • Give up your need to impress others: Stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not just to make others like you. It doesn’t work this way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, the moment you take of all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people will be drawn to you, effortlessly.
  • Give up your resistance to change: Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements in your life and also the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change don’t resist it.
  • Give up labels: Stop labeling the things, people or events that you don’t understand as being weird or different and try opening your mind, little by little. Minds only work when open. The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.
  • Give up on your fears: Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exist you created it. It’s all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place.
  • Give up your excuses: A lot of times we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use. Instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives, we get stuck and lie to ourselves, using all kind of excuses that 99.9% of the time, are not even real.
  • Give up the past: I know. This one’s hard. Especially when the past looked so much better than the present and the future looks so frightening. But, you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have. The past you are now longing for the past that you are now dreaming about was ignored by you when it was present. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all, life is a journey not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself, but always be present in the now.
  • Give up attachment: This is a concept that, for most of us, is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too (it still is), but it’s not impossible. You get better and better at it with time and practice. The moment you detach yourself from all things (and that doesn’t mean you give up your love for them because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another. Attachment comes from a place of fear, while love well, real love is pure, kind, and selfless; where there is love there can’t be fear, and because of that, attachment and love cannot co-exist) you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and so serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things without even trying. A state beyond words.
  • Give up living your life to other people’s expectations: Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to what others think is best for them; they live their lives according to what their parents think is best for them; to what their friends, their enemies and their teachers, their government and the media think is best for them. They ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy with pleasing everybody, with living up to other people’s expectations, that they lose control over their lives. They forget what makes them happy, what they want, what they need and eventually, they forget about themselves. You have one life this one right now you must live it, own it, and especially don’t let other people’s opinions distract you from your path.

Why Are You Silent??????

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Why Are You Silent??????

Oh Muslim Kings, Sheiks And Presidents and Presidents of The World.

Why are you so silent to the cries, agony, and hardships of you fellow humans in Palestine, what goes through your minds when you see the pictures and videos of what genocide is being done to them?

I can tell you what happens to me, I cry that in my mind, I cry in my heart, I cry with tears, I cry in prayer, I cry that all I can do is pray for them, I cry that I HAD NOT BEEN BLESSED WITH ARMIES AND WEALTH LIKE YOU ARE!! For if I had been I would have given everything I have to Palestine. What do you do? You turn a blind eye!

How do sleep at night, does your heart not ache? Does your body not shake in pain for them? I can tell you, that I CANT SLEEP, MY HEART IS IN CONSENT PAIN, AND BODY SHAKES FOR THE PAIN THEY GOING THROUGH.

Why are you been puppets to the Israeli Assassins OR MURDERERS? YES I SAID “Assassins” and Murderers, oh yes lets add Serial Killers to the list, for they are that and more.

Have you asked yourselves how are you going to answer to Allah (God)? Have you asked yourselves how are you going to stand in front of HIM and answer : “WHAT DID YOU DO TO HELP?” or “WHAT DID YOU DO WITH THE POWER AND WEALTH THAT I HAD BLESSED YOU WITH?”

I sincerely hope that this letter reaches you, that you read, ponder over it, may it touch your hearts to get find the courage to stand up for Palestine, for the innocent lives that are being taken.

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Sincerely

Muslimah

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