Beliefs Husbands Have Of Their Wife…The Truth

Beliefs Husbands Have Of Their Wife…The Truth

1) A wife will never be satisfied.

The Truth:  A wife is always looking for ways to make things better. Don’t take her suggestions as complaints or criticisms, but as her desire to make the relationship or situation the best that it can be.

2) A strong and confident women does not need a man to take care of her.

The Truth: Everyone loves to be taken care of and to feel needed. Even if a wife can fix things around the house or change the oil in her car, she will still ask for your help so she can feel your strength, support and protection. Don’t ever stop asking, “What can I do for you?” because it shows her that you care.

3) A wife only want to control her husband.

The Truth: It’s not about control; it’s about love. When a wife sees her husband hurting, struggling or overwhelmed, her goal is to help, not control. Let her give you a helping hand.

4)  Keeping a wife requires a lot of hard work, time and money.

The Truth: A marriage requires time and effort to cultivate it. You shouldn’t look at it as a burden. Your wife will reciprocate the effort you put into it.

5) You can not lie to your wife.

The Truth: a wife is extremely capable of picking up moods and attitudes and can easily read body language and facial expressions. Although you may think that you have gotten away with a great lie, she is either letting it slide because she wants to keep the peace.

6) Jealousy and passiveness are part of being a wife.

The Truth:  A wife is protective of what belongs to her, she will protect the things she values, especially when it comes to relationships. It’s not that she doesn’t trust you; she is guarding the relationship. You are too precious to her for her to allow anything bad to happen.

7) A wife is emotional.

The Truth: A wife does not hide her feelings. They articulate what’s going on in their minds.

8) A wife love is for peace.

The Truth: A wife’s love is true and deep, when she loves, she gives her whole heart and soul, love her the way she loves you.

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2 comments on “Beliefs Husbands Have Of Their Wife…The Truth

  1. انکل ٹام says:

    hmm thanks ,,, even though i am not married but i think, that these points are very helpful for couples, and singles as well to learn how to live in peace with their wives

    • muslimah says:

      As sala’amu alaikum
      Jazakumullah , helpful they are, understanding is what is now needed *smile* women are not difficult to understand *smile*
      May we all become good spouses to our partners, aameen thumma aameen.
      بنت محمد ،

      Bint Muhammed

      “O Allah, make my love for You the most beloved thing to me, and Your displeasure with me the most fearful thing to me, and instill in me a passion for meeting You & when you have given the people of the world the pleasures of their world, make the coolness of my eyes (pleasure) in worshipping You. Aameen Thuma Aameen”

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